In This Issue
- Letter from the Editor
- Making Small Group Ministry Available - Part 7 - to New Members and Newcomers Class Graduates
- Response from Claude VanderVeen, First Unitarian Society of Milwaukee, WI to a Question in the May Issue of CG News
- Note from Susan Jordan, Emerson UU Congregation, Marietta, GA on Additional Issues to Consider Before Making SGM Available to Youth
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Letter from the Editor
The UU SGM Network Institute returns to Camp deBenneville Pines, Angeles Oaks, CA, August 30 - September 2. See a full description of the Institute and how it can benefit you and your program under News and Events, below. It is always educational, as we explore the basics and the cutting edge issues together, but it is also inspirational and exciting to make close connections with other people who are implementing small group ministry in their home congregations. I hope to see you there this year. The Network has received a grant from the UUA Fund for Unitarian Universalism that allows us to decrease the registration fee to $300 with discounts of $25 for Network members and for those who register by July 22. For those who need to fly, this same grant also allows us to offer free local transportation between Ontario, CA and Camp deBenneville Pines.
The UU Small Group Ministry Network booth at General Assembly was as exciting as ever. Susan Hollister, UU SGM Network Treasurer, organized and supervised the booth, but we also had about 20 volunteers. It seemed to the Network Board members present that small group ministry was mentioned at more workshops and presentations this year and, from conversations at the booth, that small group ministry programs are an increasingly important part of our churches' organizations, as well as their ministries. There were three kinds of experiences that Susan and I and other volunteers had at the booth this year:
(1) More ministers visited than in years past. A typical communication with a minister involved a description of a successful program and a specific question or request for resources.
(2) Another type of visitor we had was more often a lay person who said that one of the parts of his/her church's model was not working well at all.
Often, over time, the church had allowed its model to deteriorate and dropped some of the basics, such as the discussion period or allowed the discussion to become academic, rather than based on the lives of the participants.
And equally often, churches had created small group ministry myths. That is, they had made some optional elements part of their basic model and were not able to make adjustments when the elements weren't working well. An example was ending groups after one year. Many churches choose to do this for all or some of their groups, but it is not a necessary part of small group ministry. You'll be hearing more later about these small group ministry myths.
A good reference for what is basic to small group ministry and the factors to be considered when making the remaining choices is Implementing Small Group Ministry, which is available on Network website Free Online Resources page. http://www.smallgroupministry.net/public.html.
(3) We heard stories from many congregations about having trouble with attendance at facilitators meetings. Again, a topic you'll hear more about later. If you've had problems or good experiences with your facilitators/leaders meetings, send me a note at Diana_dorroh@hotmail.com.
The Network's workshop, sponsored again by the GA Planning Committee: "Small Group Ministry Across Generations" was attended by over a hundred participants and our new publication Small Group Ministry with All Ages, by Rev. Helen Zidowecki, sold well. See the note under Publications below for more information and to find out how to order a copy.
I have included a short article on Making Small Group Ministry Available to New Members and Newcomers Class Graduates. The remaining subtopic in the Making Small Group Ministry Available series is Extra Care Required Members and Long-Term Members. Please send me your experiences with making small group ministry available to members who require extra care and long-term members.
In this issue, we have a response from Claude VanderVeen, First Unitarian Society of Milwaukee, WI to a question from the May CG News involving challenges to the need for silence during check in. Also, we have a note from Susan Jordan, Emerson UU Congregation, Marietta, GA. Susan adds to my list of things my congregation is considering before making sgm available to youth.
The SGM Quarterly - Summer 2011 issue contained:
"Connections" by Steve Becker, Westside UU Congregation, Seattle, WA
"Learning as Spiritual Practice" by Rev. Dr. Brent Smith, Grand Rapids, MI
Personal Credos by Bill Mahony, Eno River UUF, Durham, NC
Membership & SGM by Laura House-Kelly, Main Line Unitarian Church, Devon, PA
"SGM Program at the UU Church in Eugene" by Dick Loescher, Eugene, OR
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Editor, Covenant Group News
Program Director, Unitarian Church of Baton Rouge
Making Small Group Ministry Available - Part 7 -
New Members and Newcomers Class Graduates -
by the Editor
In 1999, the Unitarian Church of Baton Rouge adopted the Roots and Branches model, described by Rev. Brent Smith in the Summer Quarterly. An important part of this model is inviting graduates of the newcomers (Roots) class to join a covenant (Branches) group. Our church's initial goal was to create a program that would allow new members to make a connection to a small group and to the church. There were two initial problems: persuading the participants to join a group and finding leaders for the groups. As time went by, the Branches program became a well-known part of our church and was an easier "sell." Also, our minister, Rev. Steve Crump, talked in each class session about the benefits of joining a group, so that by the last session, most were ready to join. Also, in the early years, forming so many new groups created a constant need for new facilitators, but somehow Rev. Crump, and I found qualified leaders and trained them before the last session of the Roots class was held. Our groups continue indefinitely and most members stay with their group. So... after about five years, half of our congregation belonged to a covenant group. After about seven years, more than 60% of our congregation belonged to a group. Currently, we have 24 Branches groups and 250 participants, including about 40 facilitators. If better retention of new members is one of your goals, I highly recommend a concerted effort to get them into a covenant group.
Since 1999, our congregation has grown from 300 members to 390 members. When most members of a congregation participate in small group ministry, membership retention improves and this creates a potential for numeric growth. Another benefit of having most congregation members in a covenant group is the tendency for group participants to be in right relationship in other church settings and to listen and accept other church members. This can make the inevitable church conflicts more civilized.
Recently, I'm hearing that more congregations are intentionally inviting new members and graduates of their newcomers classes to join a covenant group. At one of the GA workshops, a staff member from a church with more than 950 certified members described an experience of intentionally "putting" new members into covenant groups and, over time, having 700 members in small group ministry. I'm in the process of contacting the sgm coordinator at this congregation, so that you can hear their whole story.
Send me your experiences with including new members and newcomers class graduates in your small group ministry program. Diana_dorroh@hotmail.com
Response from Claude VanderVeen,
First Unitarian Society of Milwaukee, WI
to a Question in May CG News
Repeat of the Question from Loretta Carmickle, Co-Coordinator, Small Group Ministry/Covenant Circles, UUC Amado/Green Valley, AZ
At least one of our groups feels that listening without comment during check in is "too much structuring" of the model and feels that it hinders rather than promoting intimacy. They would like to take time during check in to respond to personal needs expressed, feeling that this is a way to minister to one another. How should I respond to this?
I, too, like to stress the practice of listening during check in. Much of normal conversation is listening with some attention, while formulating a response with some attention. Here is a solution that works for my group: we listen with all our ears during check in. Then the facilitator asks the members for "other words", which can be a brief response to a member concern, an insight into the topic of our last meeting, something I forgot to include in my own check in that I feel is important, etc. If a member wants to respond in more depth, then they may covenant to meet after the Chalice Circle. I like to think of "other words" as a postscript. An added plus is that I don't have to attend too much to not leaving something out on my check in. This second chance helps.
Here is a fun story that I tell my people periodically. I do not know its provenance.
Once there was a Novice who took a vow of silence for 5 years. At the end of 5 years, she still did not speak, nor after 6, then 7 years. Someone gently asked out of concern, and the Novice said, "When I can improve on the silence, then I will speak."
Be well, and thank you for this Ministry.
Note from Susan Jordan,
Emerson UU Congregation, Marietta, GA
UU SGM Steering Committee
on Additional Issues to Consider
Before Making SGM Available to Youth
We at Emerson UU Congregation in Marietta are just beginning our Emerson Listening Circles in September. We discussed having a SGM program for youth and decided to wait because of the obstacles you described and others we may not have thought of.
- How will the youth feel if there are two adults present (... with criminal background checks)?
- If we meet in someone's home, will we need two adults (... with criminal background checks)?
- Will it be a Sunday morning program? ...
- What happens to their regular Sunday program?
- Would the format for Sunday RE be SGM once a month?
- Will it compete with OWL?
- Since many do not drive, it may be difficult to get them back for another church activity later in the day on Sundays.
- Youth are busy with activities and studies. When would they be able to gather during the week?
- Our RE Director, Beth Klein, says, "My dream is to offer an Interfaith Sr. High youth group for East Cobb based at Emerson that does community service work." ... Wouldn't this be an outstanding SGM program.
The bottom line for us is that we are going to start with adult programs. But we are very interested in learning about the joys and challenges of a program for youth.
Share your insights, strategies and experiences.
Send your comments to Diana at email@example.com
We'll print them in the next CGNews
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